One of the things that keeps coming back to me in my prayer time is that it's a great idea to have a vision for the future... to have a dream to dream and a plan to follow but we can't get too possessive of these things because then our way becomes the only way that we can see and the truth is
God may have a better way! If we get rigid about what we want the future to look like, we may miss out on the vision that God has for us... which will be infinitely better. He has proved this in my life over and over again.
When I am willing to LET GO and LET GOD have His way in my life, and the lives of those I love and pray and trust in Him... I am always stunned by His actions of love and grace and divine generosity. God knows what we need before we even know that we need it... Give God a chance to make HIS dream for you come true!!